Author Description

A loving mothers true account of reaching the devastating realization that her only adult child, her son, is married to a covert narcissist within a narcissistic family who act like a cult. His first contact with this family was from the age of 15, if not earlier. His behavior slowly changed over a period of 20 years to the point that she no longer recognizes her son. He has changed beyond belief. It is unbelievable. This book details her traumatic experience, the rumination and an awakening to narcissism existing in the world all around us. It provides an insight into what the author has learnt with her husband, trying to make sense of what has happened, putting the pieces of the puzzle together, the strange and subtle behaviors, missed red flags and calling out poor behavior with no resulting accountability. It also summarizes the path to trying to heal and bring some sort of closure. Spiritual experiences in the form of messages from a high power are highlighted along with their meaning. Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) and the various associated terms is difficult for people who haven’t experienced narcissistic abuse to understand and become awakened and aware. The various terms highlighted in red throughout the book are summarized in an appendix to aid and educate the reader. Parents need to become educated on NPD and to educate their families and friends so as to avoid following a similar devastating experience. Understand the signs of a narcissistic person, their behaviors, words and body language. By listening to your body instinct (gut feeling) and not your brain making excuses, you can learn to protect yourself and loved ones.