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Advice for determining whether a love interest is worth the time, and tips on how to mold your current partner into a decent person.The author's conception of a gentleman is?not defined by some old school notions like age or occupation or a code of dress? or?some archaic definitions of class.? She emphasizes the importance of ignoring society's version of the ideal man?tall, handsome, wealthy?and instead, seeking a passionate person (not to be confused with an arrogant loudmouth) who can appreciate life's little pleasures. The ability to value life and hold nature in high regard are also important qualities, says Alexandre. She offers definitions of?gentleman? throughout history, providing examples of model men such as Jesus, Jimmy Carter and naturalist Galen Rowell. Her friendly tone lends the text a feeling of gentle familiarity, as if a close friend were offering advice.