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What if the traits that make you loyal, loving, and emotionally intelligent are the very reasons you’ve been targeted—and hurt—by narcissists? In Wired to Glow, licensed therapist and betrayal trauma coach Connie Crowe takes readers inside the disorienting, devastating reality of being in a relationship with a Dark Tetrad personality—someone charming, manipulative, and quietly dangerous. But this goes beyond one woman’s story. It’s a psychological deep dive into a groundbreaking theory: Super Traits, the very characteristics that make you extraordinary, are what make you most vulnerable to toxic relationships. Part personal story, part therapeutic revelation, Wired to Glow redefines what it means to “miss the red flags.” Through raw storytelling and trauma-informed insight, Crowe peels back the layers of confusion, shame, and betrayal to uncover a deeper truth—you weren’t naïve, you were neurologically wired for connection, empathy, and hope. Inside, you’ll discover: • Why your emotional depth, empathy, loyalty, and high-achieving traits may attract narcissists, manipulators, and psychopaths • How to spot the hidden red flags of toxic and Dark Tetrad personalities before the damage is done • How to recognize the early signs of love bombing, mirroring, and future faking… before you’re emotionally entangled and psychologically hooked • What the new psychology of Super Traits theory reveals about your attraction patterns • How to disentangle from the illusion, reconnect with your intuition, and reclaim your self-trust, without carrying the weight of misplaced shame • Nervous system tools and spiritual practices that lead to real, lasting healing If you’ve ever thought, “I’m too smart to fall for this,” and then did, this book is for you. If you’ve ever been blindsided by charm, shattered by betrayal, and left holding the blame, this is your wake-up call. You didn’t fall for them because you were weak. You fell because