Author Description

What you’re holding is a collection of thoughts and ideas that were left floating in my head after surviving some pretty harsh blows on my life. Most of which was entirely my fault, honestly. While the rest, let’s just say some people dumped crap on me, and I had no choice but to clean up. But don’t we all? The way I see it, there’s always something to be gleaned even after the biggest storm. Every mistake, every relationship, every drama, and circumstance taught me something. So this right here, my friend, is a compilation of incredible lessons gleaned over the years as I attempted to navigate the murky waters of relationships. Others are things I learned from observing other people’s marriages. Some will be so fresh they’ll make you think, “How I wish someone told me sooner.” Others will hit the spot the second time because there are lessons we need to hear over and over again. But if there’s anything my life has taught me, it’s that you can never be the best lover unless you harness a great relationship with yourself first, which is why you’re in the right place. As you flip through these pages, you’ll find little nuggets of wisdom to help heal the relationship you have with yourself. It’s my hope that the insights here profoundly resonate with you. And that when you come to the end of these pages, you’ll have discovered how to have, give and enjoy the love you deserve—both from your lover and yourself. That’s why this book exists.