
"A clearheaded study of what life can do to us and possible ways to begin again." —Carl A. Whitaker, M.D., author of Midnight Musings of a Family Therapist and coauthor of The Family Crucible Women and men who have been deeply hurt by someone they love often experience a pain that spirals out to undermine their work, relationships, self-esteem, and even their sense of reality. In Forgiving the Unforgivable, author Beverly Flanigan, a leading authority on forgiveness, defines such unforgivable injuries, explains their poisonous effects, and then guides readers out of the paralyzing anger and resentment. As a Fellow of the Kellogg Foundation, Flanigan conducted a pioneering study of forgiveness, and from that study, from her clinical practice, and from her many years of teaching, researching, and conducting professional workshops and seminars, she devised a unique six-stage program, presented here. Filled with inspiring real-life examples, Forgiving the Unforgivable is both a practical and a comforting guide to recovery and healing.
This book investigates the psychological mechanisms of deep interpersonal betrayal and provides a structured framework for individuals to navigate the complex process of forgiveness. Author Beverly Flanigan, a clinical therapist and Kellogg Foundation Fellow, draws upon extensive research and years of professional practice to analyze how intimate wounds impact a person's sense of reality and self-worth. She argues that forgiveness is not an act of condoning past actions but a necessary step for personal liberation from the cycle of resentment.
What You Will Find
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Experts recognize this work as a foundational text for understanding the clinical nuances of forgiveness in therapeutic settings. Readers frequently note the clarity of the six-stage model and its practical application for those struggling with long-term emotional pain.
Page Count:
288
Publication Date:
1994-06-01
Publisher:
Howell Book House
ISBN-10:
0020322305
ISBN-13:
9780020322306
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