This book investigates the complex emotional and relational challenges faced by individuals whose spouses disclose their homosexuality after years of marriage. The authors, Carol Grever and Deborah Bowman, combine personal narrative with psychological expertise to provide a framework for navigating the shock, grief, and identity reconstruction that follows such a revelation. They argue that recovery is a non-linear process that requires both individual introspection and, where possible, constructive communication to redefine the relationship or facilitate a healthy separation.

Experts and readers alike identify this work as a compassionate and essential resource for those navigating the specific trauma of a spouse's coming out. The text is frequently cited for its balance of clinical insight and empathetic, accessible prose.