
Using the vivid, poignant and personal stories of the members of a website support group she founded (www.depressionfallout.com), Anne Sheffield, the author of two highly acclaimed books on depression, provides an honest record of what happens to a love relationship once depression enters the picture, and offers solid advice on what the non–depressed partner can do to improve his or her own life and the relationship.Of the millions of people who suffer from a depressive illness, few suffer in solitude. They draw the people they love – spouses, parents, children, lovers, friends – into their illness. In her first book, How You Can Survive When They're Depressed, Anne Sheffield coined the phrase 'depression fallout' to describe the emotional toll on the depressive's family and close friends who are unaware of their own stressful reactions and needs. She outlined the five stages of depression fallout (confusion, self–doubt, demoralisation, anger, and the need to escape) and explained that these reactions are a natural result of living with a depressed person.
This book investigates the specific emotional and relational consequences of living with a partner suffering from clinical depression and provides strategies for the non-depressed partner to maintain their own well-being. Anne Sheffield, an experienced author on the subject of depressive illness, utilizes personal narratives gathered from her support group members to map the progression of emotional strain within relationships. She argues that depression is a shared experience that impacts the entire support system, necessitating a structured approach to self-preservation and relational maintenance.
What You Will Find
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Readers frequently note that the book provides a validating framework for those feeling isolated by their partner's condition. Experts highlight this as a practical resource for understanding the secondary emotional effects of chronic mental health issues within a domestic partnership.
Page Count:
304
Publication Date:
2003-04-01
Publisher:
William Morrow Paperbacks
ISBN-10:
0060009349
ISBN-13:
9780060009342
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