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For fans of Helen Fielding’s Bridget Jones’s Diary and Allison Pearson’s I Don’t Know How She Does It comes an irresistible novel of a woman losing herself... and finding herself again... in the middle of her life.Maybe it was those extra five pounds I’d gained. Maybe it was because I was about to turn the same age my mother was when I lost her. Maybe it was because after almost twenty years of marriage my husband and I seemed to be running out of things to say to each other.But when the anonymous online study called “Marriage in the 21st Century” showed up in my inbox, I had no idea how profoundly it would change my life. It wasn’t long before I was assigned both a pseudonym (Wife 22) and a caseworker (Researcher 101).And, just like that, I found myself answering questions.7. Sometimes I tell him he’s snoring when he’s not snoring so he’ll sleep in the guest room and I can have the bed all to myself.61. Chet Baker on the tape player. He was cutting peppers for the salad. I looked at those hands and thought, I am going to have this man’s children.67. To not want what you don’t have. What you can’t have. What you shouldn’t have.32. That if we weren’t careful, it was possible to forget one another.Before the study, my life was an endless blur of school lunches and doctor’s appointments, family dinners, budgets, and trying to discern the fastest-moving line at the grocery store. I was Alice Buckle: spouse of William and mother to Zoe and Peter, drama teacher and Facebook chatter, downloader of memories and Googler of solutions.But these days, I’m also Wife 22. And somehow, my anonymous correspondence with Researcher 101 has taken an unexpectedly personal turn. Soon, I’ll have to make a decision—one that will affect my family, my marriage, my whole life. But at the moment, I’m too busy answering questions.As it turns out, confession can be a very powerful aphrodisiac.From the Hardcover edition.
Alice Buckle, a woman navigating the quiet stagnation of a twenty-year marriage, finds her life upended when she begins an anonymous, increasingly intimate correspondence with a researcher for a study on modern marriage. Alice struggles to balance the mundane pressures of motherhood and her career as a drama teacher against the growing emotional void in her relationship with her husband, William. The narrative framework utilizes a blend of traditional prose and the structured, numbered responses Alice provides to the mysterious Researcher 101. As the digital confessionals deepen, Alice faces the mounting tension between her established domestic reality and the allure of an uninhibited, anonymous connection that threatens to dismantle her life.
Readers often identify with the protagonist's struggle to reconcile the expectations of long-term commitment with the desire for personal recognition. The novel is frequently noted for its blend of humor and poignant observation regarding the erosion of intimacy in middle age. Critics have highlighted the clever use of the survey format to reveal the character's hidden vulnerabilities and suppressed desires. The story serves as a mirror for the modern experience of digital connection, suggesting that the anonymity of the internet can act as a catalyst for profound personal change. The narrative successfully captures the tension between the comfort of routine and the risk of seeking something more.
Page Count:
477
Publication Date:
2013-02-01
Publisher:
Harper
ISBN-10:
0007425503
ISBN-13:
9780007425501