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Many commentators tell us that, in today's world, everyday life has become selfish and atomised--that individuals live only to consume. But are they wrong?In Me, Me, Me, Jon Lawrence re-tells the story of England since the Second World War through the eyes of ordinary people--including his own parents-- to argue that, in fact, friendship, family, and place all remain central to our daily lives, and whilst community has changed, it is far from dead.He shows how, in the years after the Second World War, people came increasingly to question custom and tradition as the pressure to conform to societal standards became intolerable. And as soon as they could, millions escaped the closed, face-to-face communities of Victorian Britain, where everyone knew your business. But this was not a rejection of community per se, but an attempt to find another, new way of living which was better suited to the modern world.Community has become personal and voluntary, based on genuine affection rather than proximity or need. We have never been better connected or able to sustain the relationships that matter to us. Me, Me, Me makes that case that it's time we valued and nurtured these new groups, rather than lamenting the loss of more 'real' forms of community--it is all too easy to hold on to a nostalgic view of the past.
This book investigates whether the rise of individualism in post-war England has truly resulted in the erosion of community or if social structures have simply evolved into new, voluntary forms. Jon Lawrence, a historian of modern Britain, utilizes a blend of social history, personal narrative, and archival research to challenge the prevailing narrative of atomization. He argues that the shift away from traditional, proximity-based community was a deliberate pursuit of personal autonomy rather than a rejection of social connection. By examining the lives of ordinary citizens, Lawrence posits that modern relationships are now defined by genuine affection and choice rather than the restrictive social pressures of the past.
What You Will Find
Scholars and reviewers frequently note the accessibility of Lawrence's prose, which balances rigorous historical analysis with a relatable, human-centered narrative. Experts highlight this work as a significant contribution to the study of modern British social life, particularly for its nuanced challenge to common declinist narratives.
Page Count:
352
Publication Date:
2019-09-01
Publisher:
Oxford University Press
ISBN-10:
0198779534
ISBN-13:
9780198779537
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