Motherhood, despite societal idealization, remains a disproportionately challenging experience for women due to systemic failures and societal judgment. Eliane Glaser's book investigates the paradox of mothers being revered yet poorly treated, exploring the societal and structural factors that exacerbate the difficulties of child-rearing. The book examines the loss of autonomy during pregnancy, the often traumatic experiences in childbirth, and the subsequent impact on women's careers, finances, and emotional well-being. Glaser questions why advocacy for mothers has waned and proposes necessary changes to improve the experience of raising children for all involved.

The book is lauded for its 'brilliant' and 'liberating' insights into the realities of modern motherhood. It directly addresses the persistent challenges women face, from the loss of bodily autonomy during pregnancy to the unequal burdens and judgments experienced post-birth. The work is recognized for its searing and vital examination of why mothers, despite being idealized, are often treated poorly. Glaser's inquiry into the unfashionable nature of campaigns for mothers and her proposals for improvement are central to its reception.