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How does one talk about love? yearning, n./adj. At the core of this desire is the belief that everything can be perfect. We are all beginners when it comes to love, from those tentative first dates to learning how to live with, or without, someone. But how does one describe love? How does one chart its delights and pleasures, its depths and desolations? Do we even have the right words to describe something that can be both utterly mundane and completely transcendent, pulling us out of our everyday lives and making us feel a part of something greater than ourselves? David Levithan's The Lover's Dictionary starts where we all once started - with the alphabet. Constructing the story of a relationship as a dictionary, Levithan explores the intimacies and workings of love through his nameless narrator, to paint a moving portrait of love through everyday words. Cleverly using the confines of language to provide an intimate window into the great events and quotidian trifles of being part of a couple, Levithan gives us an indelible and deeply moving portrait of love in our time. aberrant, adj. 'I don't normally do this kind of thing,' you said. 'Neither do I,' I assured you. And later it turned out we had both met people online before, and we had both slept with people on first dates before, and we had both found ourselves falling too fast before. But we comforted ourselves with what we really meant to say, which was: 'I don't normally feel this good about what I'm doing.' Measure the hope of that moment, that feeling. Everything else will be measured against it.
A nameless narrator navigates the complexities of a modern relationship by cataloging the emotional trajectory of love through a series of dictionary entries. The protagonist attempts to reconcile the mundane realities of coupledom with the transcendent nature of deep affection, facing the internal pressures of vulnerability and the external challenges of maintaining a connection. The narrative is structured as an alphabetical lexicon, providing a non-linear, fragmented perspective on the rise and fall of a romantic bond. Through these brief, focused snapshots, the narrator examines the specific vocabulary of intimacy, from the initial spark of attraction to the quiet erosion of trust.
This work is often noted for its innovative structural approach to the well-trodden territory of romantic fiction. Readers frequently highlight the effectiveness of the dictionary format in capturing the fragmented and often contradictory nature of falling in love. The prose is characterized by its precision and ability to distill complex emotional states into brief, impactful vignettes. By eschewing a traditional plot, the book invites a more contemplative engagement with the mechanics of intimacy and the limitations of language itself. The result is a portrait of a relationship that feels both highly specific and universally recognizable to those who have navigated the highs and lows of long-term commitment.
Page Count:
211
Publication Date:
2011-01-01
Publisher:
Fourth Estate (GB)
ISBN-10:
0007377975
ISBN-13:
9780007377978
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